For sex or for love

[angel]

I always wonder when a guy and a gal is together to have fun, is it utimately ended up with sex? Sometimes it makes me wonder what is love all about - sex? Or is it that when 2 persons are together, they enjoy doing things together and be happy about it.

What are your views about sex? Is it a necessary to have sex when you talk about love? Or sex has to be a part of love life?

Please share your views.

[coolguy]

Having sex with your partner is the natural part of life. That does not define as importance unless you are thinking of production for the new generation. As our country is now beginning to have lesser babies, it will be vital that able men and women should be thinking of having sex to keep up with the birth rate of the population. Of course, needless to say, you have to enjoy what you are doing rather than just for creating a new generation.

Sex is definitely be good if both parties are willing at the same time and it is also a way to release stress and tension in work life. Don't you agree?

[niche]

Sex does come into play when you want children. Of course it makes you feel a surge of pleasure and satisfaction at the height of explosion. Every move and rub you get gives an uncontrollable joy that reaches the peak of Mount Everest. If both are willing parties then the pleasure can be out of this world otherwise it will never be a joy.

I believe it has to be love and let it comes naturally. Then both parties will enjoy the fullest height of pleasure and feeling.

[angel]

niche Wrote:Sex does come into play when you want children. Of course it makes you feel a surge of pleasure and satisfaction at the height of explosion. Every move and rub you get gives an uncontrollable joy that reaches the peak of Mount Everest. If both are willing parties then the pleasure can be out of this world otherwise it will never be a joy.

I believe it has to be love and let it comes naturally. Then both parties will enjoy the fullest height of pleasure and feeling.

I totally agree that one should let nature takes its place. That will have the strongest binding between 2 persons. And the love will be like the deepest sea. Sex is just a mean of pleasure but the greatest joy comes when both are deeply in love.

[coolguy]

niche Wrote:Sex does come into play when you want children. Of course it makes you feel a surge of pleasure and satisfaction at the height of explosion. Every move and rub you get gives an uncontrollable joy that reaches the peak of Mount Everest. If both are willing parties then the pleasure can be out of this world otherwise it will never be a joy.

I believe it has to be love and let it comes naturally. Then both parties will enjoy the fullest height of pleasure and feeling.

Well, I will go with love when it comes to sex. That way, I always enjoy to the maximum height of satisfaction with true feeling. Making love with the one you love gives the most pleasure and ultimate satisfaction rather than someone you do not feel for.

[angel]

coolguy Wrote:

niche Wrote:Sex does come into play when you want children. Of course it makes you feel a surge of pleasure and satisfaction at the height of explosion. Every move and rub you get gives an uncontrollable joy that reaches the peak of Mount Everest. If both are willing parties then the pleasure can be out of this world otherwise it will never be a joy.

I believe it has to be love and let it comes naturally. Then both parties will enjoy the fullest height of pleasure and feeling.

Well, I will go with love when it comes to sex. That way, I always enjoy to the maximum height of satisfaction with true feeling. Making love with the one you love gives the most pleasure and ultimate satisfaction rather than someone you do not feel for.

You have hit the nail. I do agree totally with you. I would want to best when comes to sex if not, I rather not having it at all.

[coolguy]

When it comes to sex, some might find it hard to talk about while some might want to boost about. Sometimes it makes one wonder if this should be a sacred thing between 2 persons or it is an open topic where everyone talks about it openly.

Here is something I have to say that might be disbelieving but it is the truth. I had met a girl about 20 years back (1987) and I was really surprised at what she had said to me. She believed that she can get pregnant by kissing!!! This came as a shock to me that 20 plus year old girl can have such thought. It sounded like in a movie where this idea being said before.

Guess there should be more openly talk about sex and let those ignorance people to know what sex is all about.

[agloco]

In my view Love should be limited to some kissing and not beyond that. Both should control this. Beyond this border both should be a couple.
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[niche]

I do agree with you that before marriage, it should be just kissing. That way, your wedding night will prove to be the most memorable thing in your life.